When a wedding gets near, we can’t avoid every person in the family from giving out a lot of unsolicited advices to both the bride and the groom. Their particular families will likely give out recommendations on what they think is good. We happen to be all focused on what must be done. But who tells you what NOT to do? That’s definitely just one of the factors that men and women are missing out once they give out advice to the soon-to-be-couple. There happen to be a few things that I’d prefer to add to your wedding list. These are the things you should avoid.
We all know that your household means no harm to your wedding day and they could only wish you all the excellent things. The truth is, occasionally they normally do plan the wedding according to what worked for them or their particular friends before and now they are applying it to your wedding. It’s not bad but from time to time, what works for them might possibly not work for you and it could only make things worse for your wedding day.
Do not allow somebody else to decide how your wedding should go. It’s your big day and not theirs. You must take part in the decision making since the folks who are trying to help will have to refer to you first if you think their ideas could suit your taste and not the other way around when they would just inform you of what they will be doing to your wedding. It will just not work out that way. Even wedding planners and coordinators “coordinate” with the bride and the groom first before making virtually any further steps in preparation for the wedding.
In being a hands-on bride, you want all the best and you won’t settle for anything less on your big day. From the dress, decorations up to the menu, nothing should be left out. We should also consider that we are only human who get tired and exhausted. You tend to do and mind all the major responsibilities to make the wedding a success and end up the most stressed out person in the entire celebration when you should be the one enjoying. You need to delegate people to do a particular job for your wedding. Better yet, get a good wedding planner who will take all the stress for you. That way, all you’ll have to worry about is how to slip into your gown perfectly on the big day.
This rule is always being overlooked in special occasions such as weddings. Don’t be late. It doesn’t matter if you’re part of the entourage or if you’re the bride or the groom. Just don’t be late. Don’t keep your guests and most especially your soon-to-be spouse waiting for you. I’ve been to several weddings and this is always the case. Everybody ends up worrying if something came up and either the bride or the groom backed out of the wedding. And then here comes the bride all dressed in white. I took her quite a while so now the flowers are all dry. We don’t want that to happen, do we?
Whatever it is, don’t fret about it. Don’t worry that something wrong might happen during the big day because believe it or not, the more you think of it, the more it will happen. So just relax and get married!